Mistress Enola used a lethal combination of the silent treatment as well as her dirty feet to dominate and tame her boyfriend. She knew he needed taming as he was free spirited and she knew she could lose him to whatever excitement he had for the moment. She instead wanted him to sit down and plan things and have priorities instead of living a YOLO lifestyle. It was not easy but as she humiliated him, it helped make him slow down.